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Motivation: Improve Yourself – Aiden Ambitz

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A set of students (A) analyzing the failure in their results came to a conclusion that the exams was too difficult. They had their lecturer to blame for setting difficult questions. This is a quality of unsuccessful people; they blame someone for their failure. Another set of students (B) that took the same exams but passed, attributed their success to their hardwork. This set of students got themselves in a better position of getting a good result. They prepared for it, they made themselves better. Whereas, the set (A) students were unprepared, hoping the exams would be easy. And when the outcome didn't suit their wishes, they blamed the lecturer for it. This happens in everyday life; we tackle a problem, we fail at it and we look for someone or something to blame. We never considered we were never prepared to take on the task. We were simply hoping it would be easy. Don't wish it to be easy, rather wish you are better, thereby giving room for improvement.

Early Morning Secret

Early mornings are the best part of the day. They prepare you for the rest of the day and help you develop a positive mindset towards any task ahead. Successful people use this time to their advantage and start their day on a positive note. Late mornings, on the other hand, can make you feel weak, lazy, and easily irritable. The rest of the day can be slow, full of negativity, and with little to no achievements. This is because our mindset during the early hours of the day sets the tone for the rest of the day. The hour between 6am and 7am is a crucial time to feed and strengthen your mind against the day's negativity. If we miss this hour, our minds become more receptive to negative thoughts and self-doubts, leading to a loss of confidence in ourselves. By waking up early and meditating positively on the day's tasks during this period, we can approach any task with confidence and increase our chances of completing them successfully.

Forget The Challenge, Just Smile

A son once asked his father a question, "Dad, why do you keep smiling even when you are facing problems? You are supposed to be sad about it. Why is that?" The father replied, "Son, as a human being, I know it's normal to feel bad when challenges come your way. Yes, I do feel bad, but I smile because I know it's life's test. It is normal to face challenges in life. No matter how careful you try to be, you must encounter them." He continued, "What we don't realize is that it's not the challenges that matter, but rather how we react to them. You may decide to feel too bad about it, overthink it, get angry at the people involved, or mope over it. However, this does not solve the problem. There's a saying that goes, 'the more you concentrate on a problem, the greater you are making it become.'" The father then shared his two principles for dealing with challenges. He said, "When faced with a challenge, I ask myself two q

Don't Give Up

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Have you ever won a computer game? It's a feeling of accomplishment that rushes through you. You feel relieved and proud because you passed through difficult stages and succeeded at last. But getting to the end wasn't easy. The more levels you complete, the more complicated it becomes and the closer you get to the end. You may have failed at some levels, but you never gave up. Instead, you restarted the level and made sure not to make the same mistake again. You learned something from your failure. Just like in life, success is not a free passage. You have to work through stages like the game you won. The higher you get to attaining your goals, the more complicated it becomes. When you fail at some point in life, don't quit. Try again, but this time more intelligently and carefully, not repeating the mistakes you made before. Remember, we learn from our past mistakes. The end goal of your struggles is waiting for you. You won't get there if you give up. You become s

Be Yourself

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Let me share something with you that might surprise you. We all know how we were conceived. Out of a million sperm released to reach the egg, only one survives, and the rest died on the way. That one sperm that survived the race of millions is you! Amazingly, you won a race of a million competitors. But what happens now? Why do you feel inferior? Why do you feel like you have no purpose in life? Why do you feel like you can't reach the sky like others do? Is it because of people's opinions that make you feel and act that way? Remember when you were just a sperm, you had no open ears to anyone saying you can't win. Then you won. Why not close your ears to them now? If they realize that you are better than they are, and you will achieve more than they do, that is why they might discourage you and make you feel less important. But no matter what happens, remember that you won the greatest race ever. That alone is proof of your importance. So, be motivated and inspired. Don&

Becoming A Successful Entrepreneur

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An entrepreneur is a person who organizes and operates a business venture and assumes much of the associated risk. Successful entrepreneurs have the potential to radically improve the world on multiple fronts. Not only can they meet economic needs and please costumers, but they can also help their employees achieve their full potential.  If you dream of making a difference in this way, you just might make a great entrepreneur. To know if entrepreneurship is right for you, and if you have the great qualities of an entrepreneur, consider these things: 1. Have A Passion For What You Do One of the most important element of successful entrepreneurship is loving what you do. This means not just a love for doing business, but also a passion for your specific field. Those who love what they do, are likely to deal with failure constructively. This makes an entrepreneur to learn how to do better rather than being discouraged. 2. Take Action Successful ent

Admitting Your Mistakes

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Mistakes are always forgivable if one dares to admit them. Anyone can make mistakes. People often find it a matter of shame to admit if they do something wrong. If you remain honest with your work and the people around you, you will avoid too many problems. Maybe admitting a mistake on the spot is difficult and demands a lot of courage, but it can save you from a significant loss in the future. Learning to admit your mistakes is a substantial part of your personality development and it also adds to self-discipline. Admitting your mistakes: ✔ Saves You From Guilt Hiding a mistake may seem to be more comfortable than accepting it, but within yourself, you will always feel uncomfortable. When you hide your mistakes and lie about it, a pang of guilt takes birth in you. With time, it becomes more prominent and kills you. Admitting your faults can save you from such a situation. It will make you strong and you can face the world without guilt and shame.  ✔ Mak

How To Calm Down Fast When You Are Angry

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Stressful situations come and go in one's life. People often face such circumstances in which they start feeling angry. Anger is not suitable for health as well as it can lead to many problems. So it is essential to calm down in such a situation so you can deal with the negative and angry emotions excellently. Becoming angry and upset is not an unusual thing, anyone can be caught up with these feelings at any time.  The main thing is that you have the skill of changing the situation by keeping yourself relaxed. It is important to know how to perform in conditions when you are angry. You can manage your anger very well through these tips; Divert Your Attention When you feel angry, change the situation yourself by diverting your attention from what made you angry. If you can do this, you will see how fast you can overcome your angry emotions and start feeling calm.  Put your focus on anything you love to do and this will bring positive impacts on your mood. Take

Benefits Of Hanging Out With People Better Than You

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Spending time with people who share similar interests and hobbies as you is good, but it is equally important to socialize with people who have more knowledge, experience, and skills. These people can provide a wealth of new perspectives and help you grow as a person in various ways. Here are some detailed benefits of spending time with people who are better than you: You Will Learn Many New Things: By spending time with people who are more knowledgeable and experienced, you get the opportunity to learn new things and gain new ideas. Listening to their stories, their insights, and their experiences can help broaden your horizons and expand your knowledge. You Will Feel Happy And Motivated: Spending time with people who are more enthusiastic and inspired can make you feel happier and more motivated. These people can offer uplifting support, provide helpful feedback, and inspire you to achieve your goals. You Will Get Better Advice: When you surround yourself with people who have more li